OOTD : Fortaleza (Friendship Goal Unlocked)

September is my birth month — expect the creme de la creme of all my dresses. 🎁🎊🎂 Because it is me and my son’s birth month this September, I’m pausing the “Chubby Girls Get Skinny” project for awhile. ⏳

I’m a Libra and this is what they say about us : This is a woman that must have unresolved issues with her father and she is not easy to understand. She can be wonderful, caring, give you her undivided attention and be just and responsible more than any other sign. But her low self-esteem makes her dependent on opinions of others, or too quick to show she doesn’t care about anyone’s opinion. She doesn’t understand why other people don’t act in the way she would, and this makes her question her every move. We can say that every Libra is indecisive, but the truth is, this woman cares too much about the future to let things slide, and takes on too much guilt and responsibility. This inevitably leads to a state of self-pity and taking the role of a victim.

Everything about being a Libra is true. Though I don’t believe it and I do not base my decisions on horoscope, I agree with everything they say about Libra women. Especially on this part : She is not easy to understand.

People who really know me will agree with me on this. Yes it’s hard to understand me. My past is complicated and my experiences weren’t as easy as the others.. that’s one reason why my responses and reactions were uncommon to everyone.

That is why having friends became hard for me too. I cannot express myself well and most of the time I keep my problems to myself, not letting anyone to help me out. It’s easy for me to connect with other people but it’s hard for me to be close to someone. In short, I choose my friends carefully.

Friends come and go — I got used to seasonal & user-friendly friends already that I never thought to meet someone who’ll understand me and stick around. This is Jai, a follower turned into a friend, with the same addiction for the brand we both love, Plains & Prints. 🎀 We always say that we should go to a rehab very soon. 😅

I do not like to see someone wearing the same clothes as mine. For some reason, because of this friendship, we enjoyed wearing the same clothes. It’s funny how the style changed because of my plus-size body. Both of us are extremely different in size but our minds sync and our hearts connect. 💝🗨👗 This is the 2nd time I unlocked a friendship goal. See the 1st OOTD Friendship Goal unlocked here.

Jai, thanks for the friendship. Please don’t change. Thanks for understanding me when things get rough. 😚